Goonigoogoo

Every time I visit Snowy, we get closer and have more fun than the visit before. That is what happened on the weekend when I flew to Canberra to get my fix of cuddles and scrapbooking. Yes, I craft from time to time.

So upon landing I Canberra, I realised that they have changed the airport quite a lot. I wasn't worried, I'm pretty adept at finding my way around new places - if I can do it in France, I'm pretty sure I can master an Australian location. Snowy, on the other hand was slightly panicked. I thought I was supposed to go meet her in the carpark and all of a sudden she was walking toward me in the terminal! 'A lovely surprise!' I thought, but the truth was that after having to take a whole lap of the place owing to a wrong turn, finding her usual carpark was now for rentals and very nearly mowing down a pedestrian on a zebra crossing, she thought she better just come meet me. Either way, I was happy. She said that she thought the pedestrian was me, and I was waving madly at her to say 'look! Here I am!' but no, it was just a stranger trying to preserve her own life. I didn't realise how traumatised she was til I turned on my phone and found the following two texts:

Ok change of plan. They have changed the parking. I am going to the 10 min pick up. So if you can't find it just call and we will work it out

Then:

Oh my god this airport is gone to the dogs. Back to first plan.

Haha 'gone to the dogs?' I said, to which she replied '...oh, turmoil at the terminal...' hahahaha! I just love my family.

So then on the way home, we got to talking about her birth, which was really very difficult, long and painful for her on account of the drug they administered to bring on the labour - it also intensifies the pains. At the end of the story, as we slowly pulled up to a stop in the garage, she concluded the soliloquy.

'You know, people say that giving birth is supposed to be such an amazing experience, so natural and that the pain is short-lived and that you don't care anyway cos you have this beautiful baby? But it was horrible! I mean, the beautiful baby bit is true, but otherwise, it was fucked!'

Bahahahaha! Did I mention that I love my family?

So my nephew was still up, cos they're conditioning him for the daylight savings changeover. I wasn't sure he would remember me. I walked into the hallway and he saw me, starting flapping his arms and squealed. Stoked:) the last time I saw him he couldn't walk, and now he gets around everywhere like a little orangutan, waving his arms about his head. Actually he alternates between that and a great impression of a tiny drunk man trying to find the toilet after a bender. He, like his Aunty Wob (me) talks incessantly, but it is completely indecipherable except for the Dadadadadas and the Mumumumums. I always thought that old chestnut that babies say 'goo goo ga ga' was crap but it's actually true! He was gooing all over the shop! The best bit is that a lot of the time it sounds like he's saying 'goonigoogoo' and I was sooooo tempted to say 'what da fuck is goonigoogoo?' For more explanation on goonigoogoo, go here.

So we had just the most awesome week - they have a new spa and we spent a couple of nights in there sipping moscato and ensuring that my nephew didn't drown.  He loves the water!  He cracked it hard core when we had to take him out but since I am naturally adept at acting like a complete moron, I had him laughing again in no time.

One of the days we planned a walk to the shops, to purchase scrapbooking supplies and have a cup of tea.  Snowy was a little nervous, because the last time she walked that route, a dog attacked them and she only survived by inching away and yelling 'GET OUT OF HERE!' over and over.  I said to her: 'well... Dean used to play baseball, why don't we take a bat?' Now, I certainly do not want to injure an animal, ever.  BUT - you fuck with my family, you get brained.  So I took the bat.  The dog didn't appear, but I did have to take it out of the pram at one point to wave about menacingly at a magpie that was giving us eye slits.

So, once home, we began the scrapping.  I never knew I had a hidden love for this pastime, but it turns out I do, and I just have to embrace it.  I made this for Kat's birthday:

My last day there, we took my nephew to Gymbaroo.  It's like a place where the kids can play on equipment and then they have 'mat time' where they do little exercises and movements.  My nephew was not a fan of mat time.  I guess his rationale was 'why are we just sitting here when there is play equipment behind us?  I mean, c'mon, there's a scooter!!'  He squirmed around like a greased weasel and while I tried to pick him up, he threw his head back and hit it on the floor.  Tears, lots of tears.  I felt like the world's biggest asshole and worst aunty.  Then, after some Mum hugs, he was ok and it was time for the treasure bag.  Now, Snowy said that she had to chastise him on previous occasions for pushing past the other kids (who are all sitting patiently on the mat) to delve into the bag before anyone else, before even the carer said it was ok.  So, it killed me when he just stood there waiting like a good boy.  The funniest thing though was that the other kids were still sitting down and he was the only one standing - leaning over the bag at an angle, just looking.  So cute.  When they opened the bag, it turned out that there was 95% books and 5% toys.  He was considerably unimpressed and cracked it again.  I imagined him saying 'is this some kind of sick joke?  You make me wait for books?' Haha so I took him back on the equipment. 

From there we went to Lollipops, which is a wicked place for kids where they can play, and you can get a coffee.  BON.  It turns out that my nephew has a particular penchant for the ball pits.  Not so much to play in it, just to empty it.  Luckily they have one enclosed in a net, and that fixed the problem. 

They had a little teacup ride, with possibly the world's dumbest child care worker operating it.  They ran it once, and we couldn't fit in.  So, we waited for the next one.  We sat in it and waited.  She spun us around in it.  I nearly covered him in egg and grapes from breakfast.  Then she indicated that it was time to get out.  I said 'oh, you aren't runing it again?' to which she replied

'we operate it at regular intervals during the day.'

Oookaaay, but what about the kids that missed out? 

I then said 'so when's it going to be run next?' 

She said as she walked away 'oh just let us know when you want a ride and we will do it...'

o_O

how about right fucking now, you vacant dipshit?

She also couldn't spell 'avocado' when I ordered our lunch.  *delete*

So there's the highlights from my weekend in Canberra.  Needless to say, Kat loved the present I made her.  I think I will turn pro.

Next post will be a report of the upcoming bout between the Mile Die Club and Wild Hearses!

'til then,

Tx

I should go into the ice pack business

Well. I don't think anyone could have predicted that bout. Let me put it in context...

Last year was an interesting season for Adelaide Roller Derby. It was the first year we had a grand final, and the first year for the fourth team, The Wild Hearses. As could be expected, the dynamics of teams changed when people moved around. I can't remember the scores from all the games, but I know our bouts were always close, which made me think that the teams were each reasonably close in ability. As it were, after the final whistle of the grand final, each team had had wins and losses. Now, this year we have a title to defend and everyone wants to take us down. I would be the exact same if I were on any other team. Mile Die had a bit of a rough season last year, so they had even more reason to lust after our blood.

For the first time ever, I woke up and felt nervous. I've never felt that before derby, ever. I train with all of these girls, love them all and have always treated bouts like a training so as to avoid the nervous poos. I had no doubt in my mind that the Mile Die were going to come at us like a tornado. A team of hard ass blockers and lightning jammers, they have a kit bag bursting with goodies. We had a terrible night's sleep - at 3am we were woken by a loony on Semaphore road arguing with himself and I had to call the cops AGAIN, so upon arrival to the show grounds I was not only nervous, but tired as well and acutely aware that I am at present nowhere near as fit as I was for any of our bouts last year. The super fans were lined up already at midday, and the ball got rolling. I hate the wait to start, it's just more time to think, and the more I tried to focus, the more I felt fatigued before I even started. I was mostly a jammer last year, but I already knew that I'd be blocking more than jamming this game and I was worried about whether I had the goods to deliver. Thankfully, I wasn't in the first jam, I never have been once and I'm cool as a cucumber with that. The bout was in full swing straight away and the Dies had about 20 points on us within minutes. No doubt, we were frazzled, and barely using any of the things we had been practicing lately. The packs were fast, the hits were booming and the jammers were skating like the wind. The Dies took advantage of every opportunity and played smart. Midway through the first half we were trailing 50-35, and I was put out for my first jam as jammer. I barely remember this but I think I got a grand slam that closed it to 50-40. That felt great but the Dies JUST WOULD NOT LET UP and half time saw us behind still, but at 65-46. We needed to get razzed up. We channelled the Honey Badger (if you don't know what it is, look here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg ) and decided to try to settle down and play our game. Although at first we took a bit to close the gap, we slowly started chipping away, and felt our mojo seeping back in. With just under ten minutes left, we closed their lead to ten once more. Then back out to 20 points with 5 minutes left, then down to 7 with 4 minutes, 2:40 left on the clock saw the board with 95 to 91, and that stayed the same into the last jam. I was in the pack with Krumbs at the front, Kit Cat was jamming against Disco and it was all or nothing. Krumbs and I teamed up and I lost all track of everything else but us two and our job, to keep Disco there. I can only assume that we did, because in that very last jam, she scored nothing and Kit Cat got 5. The crowd erupted and I remember thinking 'either the Dies just won and that's their fans, or...' And I looked at the clock and saw 95-96. We had done it. One point. I was incredulous, I think we all were - there was that second where you look at everyone, anyone for clarification that it actually happened. 

So, that's the breakdown of how it went with regards to the points. Now, for an account of the physical nature of the game. Like I said, I used to mostly jam. I consider that my main asset as a jammer is agility. Thus, for me, having a very constant and sordid affair with concrete is a ratity. Not anymore. The last time I spent that much time on the floor I was drunk and 'breakdancing'. When I said the Dies had hard ass blockers, I was understating. Champion Ruby, Bones, Roller Junky, Gatey... I could go on. I literally feel like I have been in a fight. With a honey badger. On crack. I was in so many pile ups. On the bottom. Behold, this...

which looks pretty normal, over the course of about 5 photos becomes this:



Yes, and there's me sprawled on the ground (white socks).  And what about this little gem:

Now I'm getting ridden like a pony.

So, yes.  It seems that being a blocker is going to mean more bruises for me, which is ok.  The cool thing is, that ADRD wants to go back to grass roots this year, good old fashioned derby for the loyal fans.  Last year after the grand final I heard people say that it was good to see some big blocks again, and I reckon that yesterday's bout gave them a great show.  Old school big hits, girls leaving it all on the track to get even just one point.

The after party, despite being on a Sunday, was pretty sweet.  Although I had planned to get mildly drunk, I again channelled Honey Badger and didn't give a shit so I got wasted.  We ended up at La Sing, oddly enough, and again there were trannies, bad music selection and a dripping ceiling air con grate.  I told Krumbs I'd sing with her, as it was her first time.  Then I just kept on singing.  I was demanding that girls come up to dance and calling them 'dance bitches' and inserting swear words into songs at appropriate times.  I was pointing fiercely at people as I was singing and then I took advantage of a strange guy there who was cracking onto everyone and boasting about his karate ability and made him do some on the dance floor.  It all ended rather abruptly when we got a text that the dogs were acting up and the next thing we were in a taxi home.  Sadly, I'm not sure if we won the after party this time.  Usually Roadies are the last ones there, but when I left there were still others, so I guess we have some party conditioning to do.

Well, that's it.  I am stiff, sore, hungover and have a vocal chord injury most likely, so it's time for dinner and a movie.  Wait, it's 4pm.  I am old.

Tx

Ketchup catchup

Right. Yes, it's been a while, and I do apologise. Turns out that I'm not robotic and jet setting across the globe followed by a hellish trip home, the resulting jet lag and an onslaught of allergies nearly killed me. Almost. So, now that I'm back in the land of the living and settled into Uni somewhat, here I am on my iPad, cranking this out.

Well I can't start something and leave it unfinished so here is the rest of our holiday:

- Last post we had just got to Paris.  Naturally, we thought that we had better drink some wine, especially as we couldn't go anywhere for a short while on account of most of my clothes being beer-soaked.  We promenaded down to the local, and picked up a bottle of Rosé for four euros.  The only issue was that it wasn't cold.  I tried asking the counter guy for ice.  He must have thought we were going to put the ice in the Rosé, cos he brought us a bit in a little bowl (we might have only spent four euros, but we're not animals).  Since I have watched a multitude of Macgyver episodes, I devised a plan.  We had four big cups from the Rangers game.  We also had two little plastic cups in the room.  I poured some wine in the little cup and positioned it in the bigger cup so that it was surrounded by ice and voila!  Chilled wine!  In about twenty minutes.  The next night I figured out how to ask for a wine cooler with ice.  He brought me the wine cooler, with about seven cubes of ice rattling around in the bottom!  Fuckin' bon mate, thanks.

So, we did get around doing the usual touristy stuff in Paris, but this time I knew about Versailles, so off we popped.  If my mind wasn't already blown wide apart by the apparent lack of any sort of road/parking regulations, it certainly exploded when I saw that place.  Let me put it this way: we didn't bother with any more castles and the such on the rest of the trip, cos if it ain't Versailles, it ain't shit.  Here is Kitty and I behind the palace.

The estate grounds go as far as the eye can see.  The whole theme of the place is 'bigness' I reckon.  Everything a royal court would need is there.  If the royal court was comprised of the population of Adelaide.  Opulence Maximoso.  Almost every room in the actual palace looks like this:

Or this:

It is actually hard to take it seriously.  No friggin' wonder people didn't have bread, it's obvious a lotta dough went into making this place (booda-boom tish).  And because the Queeny pants tired of all the to-do and pooh pooh, she had her own little Hamlet made, so she could escape the rat race.  Behold, just one building in the Hamlet:

Poor bugger, what a hard life.  Kat said many times that she wanted to live there.  I was appalled.  I would never want to clean that joint!  I thought that the only thing it would be good for is skating through the whole place and mad parties.  And, as if it isn't haunted!  Gross.  Also, the general floor plan that you follow has each room leading into the next, rather than off a hallway sorta thing.  That has massive awkward potential when you're getting busy or digging out an ingrown hair in your bikini line and the court shoemaker saunters in asking about your instep.  I also spotted this gem:

Good to know they had nasally mouth breathing allergy suffereres like me back then too.

So, that was Paris.  Always lovely.

London was our next stop, eight days.  The abbreviated version goes like this:

• Monday was rest and washing day.  We met a guy called Joe Pop and Kat bought dresses.
• Tuesday we went to the Titanic exhibition, they give you a copy of a boarding pass of an actual passenger.  Mine lived, Kat's died, sucky.  We wanted to go to the Observatory at Greenwich, and I asked the bus driver 'Do you go to the Observatory?' he replied 'yes.'  What he meant to say was 'I go to the stop where you get off and walk up to it.'  We were well on our way back to London when I realised the bus did not in fact go there and that assholes can be anywhere, even driving buses.
• That night we met the London Rocknrollers. Surprise, a bunch of rollergirls that are completely wicked and fun, weird! Their training space is funky, with crazy scaffolding right beside the track so potential for carnage = huge. They don't bout there though. I skated my ass off at their training, it was heaps of fun!
• Wednesday was Camden town markets, which used to be very punk but is now just full of Asian vendors selling the same shit.  Nonetheless, I found some Banksy stuff I wanted.  Something I didn't want was every Asian selling food to thrust a fork of it in my face as I was walking past whilst yelling 'DARLING! COME HERE DARLING!  COME HERE!  YOU TRY!  TRY IF YOU LIKE!  COME HERE!'  And when I would politely refuse 'no, thank you, I just ate', they still wouldn't give up - 'TRY FOR LATER DARLING!'
• Thursday we went to the london dungeon (lower case intentional there) which has been 'improved'.  Well, I've never heard of 'improving' something and making it suck balls when it used to be cool.  It used to be scary.  Mitchi and I shit our pants the last time we went and I wondered why my brother laughed at me when I told him the story - he said he thought it was mondo lame.  It is now mondo lame.  There used to be scary looking people walking around there in the dark wearing period costume - this time I saw someone had on a Ramones shirt underneath and one girl had a lip piercing!  That's hardly committing to a role.  Lackluster if I ever saw.  It had a hall of mirrors and (wooOOoo) look out for the mad woman which is just A DUMMY IN A ROCKING CHAIR! 
• From there we went to the Tower of London (deserving of caps) which was not only informative but pretty cool.  At least the Yeomen look good.  They have some huge-ass armour there too, there used to be some biiiig dudes back then.
• That night we were supposed to do our Jack the ripper tour.  The concierge told us to wait at Traitor's gate.  After waiting in the drizzle and returning to our hotel most displeased we realised that he probably meant to tell us TraDER's gate shop, so we organised to give it another go the next day.
• It was worth the wait.  The guy who took us (a self confessed 'Ripperologist') was sooo into it and knew heaps about it.  It was sweet.  He took us to where the bodies were found and told us grisly details.  Turns out that the most likely story is the one depicted in the movie starring the delightful Johnny Depp and Hagrid of Harry Potter fame called 'From Hell'.
• Saturday we decided to go out and get smashed.  So we did.  We met a couple of guys from Tunisia and drank, danced and ate in a Chinatown restaurant where a prostitute had a very loud argument with an uncomfortable looking man.  Wait, that sounds like we did all that in the restaurant.  We only ate there.  Dancing was elsewhere.
• Sunday morning we awoke to the sound of the fire alarm at 8:30am.  Since they had conducted a test earlier in the week, I presumed it was so again.  I called the front desk.  No answer.  I got up.  Put on pants.  Kat and I hadn't uttered a word to each other yet, too befuddled.  I put on a sweater.  Kat looked into the hall.  Kat grabbed a room key and left me alone in the room.  I grabbed a room key also (???) and went after her, sans shoes.  As I was padding down the hallway I thought to myself 'I don't have shoes on.  Oh well, I'm sure I won't be the only one, it is an emergency after all.'  Nope.  Everyone else's feet were clad.  There was I, barefoot like a street urchin in a London road, stepping in piss and spit and vomit probably.  Great Sunday morning.  Then when we finally got back to our rooms (without an explanation mind you) we got back into bed to nurse our hangovers some more.  Right as I was on the cusp of sleep, another noise.  I despaired until I realised it was the tv.  It was beeping to let us know we had a message.  The message was 'On behalf of the management, we would like to thank you for your patience and understanding with this morning's emergency.'
• o_O
• I actually had neither, so not only was the message not appropriate to me, it woke me up again.
• Sunday did get better, cos my sister-in-law arrived into town on business.  We had an awesome (and very expensive) Indian meal.  She has an expense account but I already loved her before I knew that so it was just a bonus.  I had one of the highlights of our trip when our taxi driver - a real pom said in answer to a question 'is the Pope a kafflik?' Cross that off my list.
• Monday was a very big day.  I had lugged around with me the entire trip an engagement ring that I had had made for Kat.  I was waiting for the right time.  We didn't go to Niagara Falls, we didn't go up the Eiffel Tower and I sure as shit wasn't going to ask her in Bahrain, so it was now or never.  Amazingly, the sun was shining, so we decided to give Greenwich another go.  We looked around all up there, then went for a walk, found a park bench with a view of the Thames and London, and right there I made Kat the happiest woman in the world by asking her to marry me.  Wait, is that how that goes?  Anyway, after a considerable pause, I had to say 'soo... is that a yes?' and she squealed and the rest is history.  It was Valentine's day.  It was perfect actually.  Then, that night it officially became the best V-day EVER cos not only did I get engaged to the best chick this side of Mars, we also went to a West End show - We Will Rock You.  It was A-MA-ZING and I actually almost cried just a little bit, I get emotional like that.  I wish Freddie Mercury didn't get aids and die.  Queen rules.
• Tuesday was Lunch with our Sister-in-law, post our excess shit and fly to Bahrain day.

Bear in mind, we avoided Egypt on account of the riots and general death, but lo and behold, upon our arrival into Bahrain, people had started peacefully demonstrating there too. Turns out that the desire for a higher standard of living and a government that doesn't steal money from its citizens is contagious.  Bahrain is beautiful in spots:

This was the view from our hotel room, which was bigger than our house. We arrived at the hotel about 8:30am, after a sleepless flight all night.  We were in bed by 9, planning to nap since my Brother and Nephew weren't arriving til about 5.  After a few minutes of dozing, I realised that something was tapping repeatedly.  I got up and searched for the source.  In the stairwell right beside our room was a man very slowly sweeping the stairs, it was his broom hitting the wall.  I said 'oh, hi... are you going to be long?'

He stopped, frowned, looked at me then said 'lonely?'

o_O

After a second I realised he wasn't propositioning me, but couldn't understand me and was trying to mimic what I said.  I put my hands together, tilted my head to the side on top of the hands, closed my eyes and made snoring sounds and then pointed to his broom and the wall and said 'bang bang' and he got the message.  Bridging the gap, that's me.

After a little nap, we went to the Hotel's little supermarket and I found this, for when you lose too much of your own, I presume:

We were somewhat rested when the boys got there - I was so excited to see them!  We went to a bottle shop, and Kat and I earned some lengthy stares.  She for her beauty, me for my tattoos.  We then went to dinner, got some wicked Tapas and were entertained by an awesome pianist.  The taxi driver was awesome - his grasp of English combined with my Brother's of Arabic made for some entertainment indeed.  When talking politics, he became animated and loud and proclaimed 'I LIKE THE KING!  But he no give me house... he no give me car...' and my Brother said 'yeah... Kings are like that.'  I had forgotten what it was like to be allowed to smoke inside and the next day I awoke stinky.  Ew.

Thursday we wanted to go shopping.  Alas, the riots had put a dampener on everyone's mood and everywhere was shut.  During the night, about 2am, the police had stormed the little camp of the (peaceful) demonstrators, with the aim of nipping it in the bud so it wouldn't escalate to the likes of Cairo.  They killed some people (BBC said 4, locals said 17) and injured more than 200 men, women and children with rubber bullets and tear gas.  They even had to get some police in from Saudi, which is pretty hard core, cos from what I could gather, the Bahraini people dislike Saudi immensely. 

So, instead of shopping, we went to eat and go to a good supermarket my Brother knows that sells good food like maple syrup and stuff they can't get in Saudi.  That was still awesome but hot, as Kat and I wore jeans just to be on the safe side.  While there, we spotted this ad:

I know I like my Daines minitual grade.  That's the only way to go.

Getting back to our hotel was a nightmare.  All the roads were blocked off on account of the riots and raid, so we drove in circles for an hour, past police, tanks and armoured personnel carriers until they opened the roads again.

That night was awesome - we went to a bar and got drunk.  Sounds pretty simple, so I guess you had to be there.  A french guy started traying to talk to my Brother, who can say 'je ne parle pas Français' extremely well - so well in fact that when French people hear him say that in such a marvellous accent, they keep right on talking to him, despite the fact that he just told them he doesn't speak it.  So my cheeky Brother told the guy 'you know my Sister over there can speak fluent French.'  No, I can't.  Nevertheless he then began to bother me.  I didn't care though, I was certainly merry enough for any nationality.  While waiting for our king loving taxi driver to return, Kat found a local cat (naturally) and then pined for it after it left - 'oh! It was so tiny!  I wanna take care of it...' etc.

The next day we had to leave, sad but true, and we actually did manage a little bit of shopping.  At the airport I had an argument with a fully clad arabic woman who clearly thought that she could push in front of me and that I would see her in all her black robe glory and be humbled.  Nope.  We fought it out and I  won.  Push in front of me, will ya?  Once inside the airport, I thought to myself  'You know, what would be nice is to have some perfume actually made here as a souvenir.  I bet they make nice ones.'  Hm.  So I went to a shop and the lady wanted to spray some on me.  I politely refused and asked her to put it on some card instead so I could test it first.  It seemed ok, so I ventured to put a little on my writst.  The first notes were floral, a little spicy, then it ended with a lingering scent of poo and body odour.  It was horrid.  I plastered my face with a panicked smile, edged out of the shop and scurried to the toilet to wash my arm.  I scrubbed til it was an angry red colour.  I returned to kat, peacefully sipping a coffee and as I sat down, she asked 'what's that smell?'  ohhh... it's going to be a loooong trip...

Ok, really, that's way long enough.  I got really sick when we got home, so I was absent but no longer!  I shall report on this Sunday's bout next week!

Cheerio!

Tx